Thursday, December 23, 2010

Thursday Christmas Wish - 2 sleeps to Christmas!

Send your love to someone who has lost someone close to them.

On the 3rd December 2010 we lost our baby girl at 27 weeks & 5 days. It has been the hardest time of our lives, I still don't know why she was taken from us and life will never been the same.

We have had the support of our family and friends who have made this difficult time a little easier. While a lot of people don't know what to say and think silence is better, just the words 'we are thinking of you' is worth a thousand words.

That's why we ask you to tell someone who has lost someone that you are thinking of them this Christmas.

Love Bec & Jayc

42 comments:

  1. Oh gosh Bec I had no idea, sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I type. I'm so sorry you lost your baby girl, I know how excited you were.
    Sending big hugs your way. Take care of you.
    All my Love Sam
    xox

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  2. Thinking of you both. May you find peace & comfort in the coming weeks XO

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  3. So sorry to hear of your loss. I lost two, one at 4 weeks the other at 8 weeks. if my grief was as great as yours what would yours be. All that bonding and love for the little one. Death is so unnatural that even Jesus wept despite knowing he was about to resurrect his friend Lazarus. Thinking of you. Cherrie

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  4. I'm so sorry for you both - it is the hardest thing to ever have to get over,and I'm sure it's a very misunderstood loss - how can you quantify the loss of a life promised? thinking of you.

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  5. There are no words are there? No-one should have to bury their child. Your angel should be with her mummy and daddy, especially at this special time when her little kicks should be reminding you of the exciting times ahead, rather than their absence making you sadder every minute. My heart goes out to you and to your angel girl in heaven. I hope you and your partner can find some peace and comfort from each other, your family and friends this Christmas.

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  6. We lost our first at exactly 24 weeks on 02/02/07...nearly four years ago. Even after all this time it is such a raw emotion. Whilst I can talk about it when I am the one in control of conversation, I cry if it comes up unexpectantly or when I hear/read of someone else's loss. Tears are rolling down my face as I type here. My heart is with you and also with our special angels who are now watching over us.

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  7. I'm so sorry Bec. Much love to you, Belinda x

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  8. I feel so sad for you and your partner. I said a little prayer for you both. Hugs

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  9. Oh my goodness Bec, my heart goes out to you and your partner - I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you both my deepest sympathies during this difficult time ♥
    With love, Sultan xox

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  10. I'm so sorry for your loss Bec. My thoughts are with you and Jayc. Justine xx

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  11. Bec. My thoughts are with you. May you find live and joy with your family and friends over this Christmas season. You are in my thoughts. Big big hugs

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  12. Oh Bec I'm so saddened of your loss - my thoughts are with you this Christmas and always xxoo

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  13. Oh Bec,

    Praying for you and your family this Christmas- that everything is well and that you can still enjoy this time of year. xo

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  14. May your beautiful baby girl watch over you this christmas, always in your hearts, always a part of your life, always a part of your family. So sorry for your loss xx

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  15. Sending my love and thinking of you and your family, I'm truly sorry for your loss x

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  16. all my love and thoughts are with you at this time. x

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  17. Bec I am so sorry that your little girl passed away. I just clicked this post via facebook because the picture caught my eye for my Daughter Airlie who was actually born at 27+5 and survived almost 5 years ago.. Im not sure why but I clicked and now I read your story. I send you lots of love.
    I learnt many lessons having my baby born so early and we have many angel baby friends who we think of often. Babies born too soon and taken too quickly make more of an inpact then many can even begin to expect. Much love to you and your family xox

    Fiona

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  18. I am so so so saddened and sorry to hear this news. My heart goes out to you and your husband at this tragic time. Wishing you a Christmas filled with lots of love and support with family and friends close by.

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  19. Bec and Jayc, I have no words that seem adequate. My thoughts and prayers are with you, I cannot begin to imagine how difficult this must be for you xxx

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  20. So sorry Bec and Jayc at the loss of your little one. My heart breaks for you, to lose a baby you love, a baby you can't wait to meet. So sad. So sorry. Sending you love xxx

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  21. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. Thinking of you both and sending all my love
    Gem
    xx

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  22. Bec I'm so incredibly sorry to hear that.
    You've been so brave to soldier on and continue without even giving the slightest hint something was amiss.

    I'm so sorry and I'm thinking of you both and wishing things could be different. xx

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  23. I'm one of those who don't know what to say and usually say silent. I am thinking of you and praying for you.

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  24. Bec I'm so so sorry. I feel so sad for you and I can't imagine how hard this has been for you both. Thinking of you. Jo

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  25. Oh bec I'm so sorry to hear of your very sad loss, there are no words, but my thoughts are with you & your family. Mel x

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  26. I'm so sorry to read of your very sad loss. We lost our first little girl 10 year ago on Dec 30 at 28 weeks, so I know just what you are going through. She is still a part of our family and remembered daily. Take care and may your sweet little angel fly freely

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  27. I'm so sorry. Your loss breaks my heart. Thinking of you.

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  28. oh bec, so sad. feeling for you.
    xx

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  29. Some things seem to have no meaning, and they never will..sorry for your lose.

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  30. Bec, Such terrible news for you and your family. Take care, sending all our love
    Angie & Kristy

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  31. Cannot imagine what you're going through... thinking of you both, and your little one at this sad time.

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  32. Bec, I am so, so sorry to read this news. You are in my thoughts and prayers today and through Christmas as you cope at this difficult time. Much love.

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  33. Oh gosh. That's just...i have no words right now... except to say that you are in my thoughts and that i will be thinking of you.

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  34. I have never experienced a loss such as this (and never will) so I really don't know what to say.

    All I can say is that I am sorry for your loss - and that I am thinking of you.

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  35. Any loss is sad, but the loss of a little one is the worst. We lost our little boy from SIDS at 10 weeks, and you're always wondering about the life they should have had. I truly think they are too pure for this world and that instead they choose to watch over and protect us. Know that your little girl must have loved you so much to want to look after you guys in that way. We've had 3 more kids since then (almost 10 years ago now) and he will still always be a part of our lives, as I'm sure your little one will be.

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  36. Thinking of you Bec, all my love and prayers for you both.
    Kylie xxx

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  37. So sorry to hear of your loss. May you be able to experience some peace, comfort and support from those around you. Thinking of you x

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  38. I'm so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My heart goes out to you both.

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  39. How utterly gut wrenching for you and your family. I think it is impossible to know what you are going through unless you have been through it yourself. I have no idea what to say other than I am so so sorry for the loss of your daughter, I'm so sorry for your pain.

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  40. I have only just read this post and I'm so terribly sorry Bec and Jayc for your loss. Thinking of you both in your time of sadness....

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  41. so deeply saddened by this news...prayer and thoughts for both of you xx

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  42. Bec,
    So saddened to hear of your loss,I to lost my first baby boy and a little thought helped get me by "you never lose the ones you love they only go before"
    Thinking of you both Joanne

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